Just how has marrige been destroyed in Massachusetts? I didn't hear anything on the news about it. I assume people are still getting married there and elsewhere. What is the problem?
If two people who love each other and respect each other and wish to get married, so be it. Whether they are the same sex or not shouldn't come into it.
If God had a problem with homosexuals, why hasn't he or she done something about it? Got an answer for that one? Live and let live. Don't try to force your beliefs one everyone else.