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Thanksgiving blessings past and present

November 24, 2005|Lisa King

I stared out the window, my nose make making two small circles on the frosty glass as I watched my dad chase a large rooster around the yard. The rooster and I were the same age.

But at 5 years old, our lives were at opposite junctions. Mine was just beginning, and his was about to culminate on the dinner table.

I didn't sample any of the roasted rooster my family enjoyed that Thanksgiving. After witnessing the hapless bird's last dash, I stuck with vegetables and pumpkin pie.

But that was the first Thanksgiving I can recall, and aside from the rooster trauma, it was a very pleasant day. I can recall the sound of wood crackling in the fireplace. I remember hearing the sound of laughter as my younger siblings played, and the resounding smack - and subsequent squall - my sister slapped her twin. I can still see my father as he relaxed in his easy chair next to the fire, the fragrant smell from his pipe mingling pleasantly with the smell of mom's pumpkin pie baking in the oven.

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Thomas Wolfe said you can't go home again.

This is true, because life continually changes. But I have found that with each aspect of life that we leave behind, such as childhood, God gives us something new to enjoy, such as our own children, and, after that, our grandchildren.

In reflecting this Thanksgiving on all the ways in which I have been blessed, and they are many, I wondered why people only "count their blessings" only at Thanksgiving.

Why can't we savor that appreciation for our families, our homes, and our country for more than just one day? Why must we, the day after Thanksgiving, revert back to old habits, taking the good things in our lives for granted?

I think it's because of the inherent greediness of humanity.

Perhaps Thanksgiving would be a good time to take stock of our lives.

How much of our material possessions do we really need, and how much only serves as a status symbol?

The really important things in life are intangible. Honor, freedom, and faithfulness are not just idealistic concepts meant only for poets and heroes. Nor are they meant only just for special occasions and holidays.

If only we could freeze just one moment in time every day, whether it be a kiss before leaving for work, or the sweet remembered sound of a baby's laughter.

As I write this column, we here at The Jessamine Journal are preparing to have Thanksgiving dinner together. I can't help but be grateful not only that we all have a good working relationship, but also for the camaraderie we share. Of course, there is a void - we all miss our former editor, Randy Patrick, who left to take the helm of The Winchester Sun. But that void only emphasizes what I said earlier about the continual pattern of change in our lives.

When we break bread together in a few minutes, we will give thanks for friends present and absent, the blessings we have shared, and those that are still to come.

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