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Candidate's wife's cancer hits close to home for one woman

March 29, 2007|GEORGE LEWIS and ASHLEY HOOKER

While Elizabeth Edwards' recent announcement that her breast cancer has progressed to Stage Four has propelled the issue to the forefront of national consciousness, a group of Stanford women have been meeting for years to offer one another support in their own battle against the same disease facing 2008 presidential hopeful John Edwards' wife.

The Breast Cancer Support Group was formed about four years ago when around 25 local women began regularly attending Kentucky First Lady Judy Patton's annual post-Kentucky Derby tea for breast cancer survivors. Since then, the group has evolved into a grass-roots organization working with the American Cancer Society to help local women adjust after a diagnosis of breast cancer.

Margaret Gabriel, one of the group's original members, underwent a double mastectomy in September 2003. She suffered from a different type of cancer in each breast, and 23 out of 30 of her lymph nodes were found to be malignant upon testing. Although she had regular mammograms and always followed her doctor's instructions, her cancer had already progressed to Stage Four. As in the case of Elizabeth Edwards, the cancer had metastasized to Gabriel's bone tissue. Gabriel believes that the hormone treatments she took for 14 years caused her cancer, though her oncologist has never confirmed it. She now has bone cancer in eight or nine places, including her ribs, pelvis and skull.

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Despite her health problems, Gabriel remains positive about her circumstances. She credits her support system with helping her get through the difficult times. She mentions two very close friends, one of whom had a malignant lumpectomy in May 2003, just four months prior to Gabriel's mastectomy.

"I called her and talked to her before my surgery," Gabriel recalls. "We call each other 'sister'- that's how close we are because of this." Along with the members of the Breast Cancer Support Group, Gabriel also counts herself lucky to have her family nearby. She and her husband have three sons, two of whom live in Stanford. Her other son lives in Danville, where his wife Dr. Bridget Coulter practices.

Gabriel works at her daughter-in-law's practice, where she says she has found a built-in support system in the other eight women who work there. "Stay busy," she recommends when asked about the strategies she has implemented to cope with her illness. "Do what you can instead of staying at home and thinking about it."

The Breast Cancer Support Group remains very active, and they still attend the First Lady's annual reception that inspired their group's establishment. The group meets locally on the first Tuesday of every month, where they offer each other support and listen to guest speakers.

During their last meeting, Jean Goode of Precisions Gym in Stanford gave a presentation on proper diet and exercise. The group welcomes anyone who has had breast cancer, a lumpectomy, or a mastectomy. For more information, contact Judy Atwood at (606) 365-2146.

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